Indonesian slang

Baper

Taking things too personally or emotionally; catching feelings.

Origin:
Short for bawa perasaan (“bring feelings”)

How it's used

Someone who is baper reads too much into a joke, a comment or a kind gesture. It's used both for getting hurt too easily (jangan baper, cuma bercanda) and for developing a crush because someone was nice to you. Casual and very common; usually teasing.

Examples

  • Jangan baper dong, aku cuma bercanda.

    Don't take it so personally, I was only joking.

  • Dia emang baik ke semua orang, jangan baper duluan.

    He's nice to everyone — don't go catching feelings yet.

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